So now that really awful terrible stuff is all out of the way I can get back to being me! Honestly I don't even know why I did it...I should just delete the whole thing!! If only I could delete all those years of self inflicted pain! Oh well! Life goes on and believe it or not, it gets better and better and better!! It's summer here and school is officially out!! I have all three of my boys home with me during the day now which means I'm constantly on my toes now!! More so than before but it's going great and I'm enjoying every minute of it! It wont be long before I have to say good bye to not only one of my little guys but two as my 4 year old will be starting preschool in the fall! But this "goodbye," wont last forever...just eight hours a day. I can do it! I know I can! The first day wont be as easy but I'm sure it will get easier.. Okay, before I cry on you guys..
My son cracked me up the other day when he looked at me and said, "Mom, what happens when you and dad are gone? How will I get money then?" YIKES! That came out of NOWHERE!! At first I laughed because it was a little funny but then I told him, "Hopefully by the time we're gone, you'll have your own money, a college degree, a good job, a wife and a little boy or girl of your own!" How easy it was to satisfy his greedy little conscious! LOL! My son also said something else that once again came out of NOWHERE! It seems as if the neighbor's son has been filling his head with all these thoughts about mommies and daddies getting new girlfriends and boyfriends/wives and husbands. Don't ask me what's going on in that kids head. Personally, I think he's a little backwards. But my son actually said, "Mom, when are you and daddy going to find new girlfriends and boyfriends?" OKAY!!! Enough with the questions! Geeze!
So I waited for Mr. Hobbit to get home and then I told him what our son had said. He thought it was a little funny but after I told him, I knelt down on the floor beside his chair in the living room, wrapped my arms around him and kissed him on his cheek and said, "No boyfriends for me.... Mr. Hobbit is all I need!!" At that point, Jacob my youngest came and got between me and the chair and started patting on daddy's, arm, my four year old hopped on my back and started giggling and my 7 year old hopped on Daddy's chair and said, "Yes!!! They're kissing!! Kiss him again Mommy! Mr. Hobbit and I both just smiled and kissed each other one more time! It was a very sweet moment! But apparently the neighbor's son is filling his head with all these questions and thoughts. Personally I don't like that very much because he's awfully young and impressionable... to be hearing about such adult topics and who knows, maybe his parents are having issues... but I'm not here to judge anyone. I hope everything works out if that's the case or maybe he heard it on television or from another friend. Oh who am I kidding? The boy's just not right!!
On a more softer and cuddly note, Miss Lily is doing great! (My sweet kitty) I lost her last night! I couldn't find her anywhere! I searched high and low and looked under the furniture frantically calling her name. I thought my son was asleep at the time but he called me into his room. He had been enjoying watching Lily hop around in his room playing with the clothes in his closet! She was exploring! And I knew it was just a matter of time before Mr. Hobbit opened his heart to her. I caught him playing with her even though he swore that he did not like cats!! He put his arm down to the side of his chair and she came running up to pounce on his hand and bat at his fingers! Was that a chuckle I hear?? LOL! Yeah, that's what I thought! I LOVE IT!!! He's such a softy! He's a sucker for cute and cuddly furbals! Just like me!
What else is knew? Well, I have family down from out of state! I've been enjoying having my aunt and my cousin down from Tennessee and Kansas. It's sad that they are leaving today but it was really great sitting down and talking to them for hours on end! I just don't get to see much of them anymore. Also in another week, my sister in law will be here and that's pretty big news because I will be meeting her for the very first time! Now how is that possible? Well to make a long story short, my husband's siblings were once scattered and separated by some rather sad and unfortunate events but now they're all adults and I think it's great that they're able to talk now and be apart of one another's lives. I know it means the world to my husband! And his little sister seems like a pretty rounded and well adjusted young woman and I can't wait to cook a really big nice dinner for the whole family!!
But that reminds me, I need to go shopping! I have this problem you see. My family is sort of clumsy! Therefore, we have just enough plates and glasses for the six of us and I need atleast four more place settings.. I had a huge set of dishes when we moved into our new home and somewhere along the way, half of them got broken or shattered on the floor! Now you all know I love to save money whenever I can and plus I'm a sucker for newer used items. So needless to say, a trip to the salvation army thrift store is in order! There was a time when I once felt the need to go buy everything brand new but now I can't see the point in spending too much money on a set of dishes when they will more than likely get broken within 6 months or less. That's pretty bad but what's the point? You can buy a decent set of dishes at a thrift store for half the price! Maybe when the kids are much older I will go out and buy myself a brand new set of expensive china without the fear of it getting broken or chipped! I don't worry so much about where the dishes have been or other's germs. That's why you sterilize them! It's nothing a little bleach and hot water can't fix!
Oh and that reminds me, I know this girl who's just starting out on her own and her and her boyfriend just got a house together. The poor things, they don't have much of anything and they are completely strapped for cash. The salvation army has this really wonderful program for people who can't afford much or have a lower income so I told her about this program they have, where they can get all the things they need for free! Clothes, shoes, housewares, you name it! She was ecstatic when I told her! I hope she takes advantage of it as it will help her family and I know how hard it is when you're just starting out and too many times, I've talked to my wise aunt whom I simply adore, who once told me, "It takes a lifetime to acquire the things you need." How true is that?
Anyhoo, that's pretty much what's been going on in my world lately. Now, I believe I'll mosey on down town to my favorite thrift store and see what I can find! Maybe I'll find something unique and pretty! Have a great day everyone and thanks for reading my blog! And in case you're wondering what happened to all those blog posts, I reverted them to drafts... working on tweaking them, adding and deleting certain things so maybe in a few days, I'll get those back for you... I just feel like they are not quite as complete as what I originally thought so I'm working on getting those back and getting them in the correct order!